LOVE LANGUAGES: PHYSICAL TOUCH

The concept of "love languages" has become part of pop culture and the terms are used frequently in regard to the way that individuals feel loved and cared for in relationships.  The concept that we all give and receive love differently has been known by the mental health community for a very long time. The specific terminology of "love languages" originated in the book: 

The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate is a 1992 book by Gary Chapman

The fifth "love language" is "physical touch." This refers to both sexual and non-sexual experiences of touch within a relationship. All forms of touch require consent. 

Some examples of this "love language" include:

1. Holding hands.

2. A massage given or exchanged with a partner.

3. Sex or other forms of physical intimacy

I have found in my practice that this love language can be easily overlooked. There is a connection between sex and love for some, and for others this is simply an act of physical pleasure or release. Like with all of the "love languages" it is vital to understand what the actions mean to both partners to ensure that emotional needs are met.